30 Day Challenge

Day 1 - What is the meaning behind your blog name?

Day 2 - What's in your handbag?

Day 3 - What's in your makeup bag?

Day 4 - If you won the lottery what would you blow your money on (after charity and bills, of course) list 10 material possessions you would buy for yourself.

Day 5 - 15 facts about yourself.

Day 6- A picture of something that makes you happy.

Day 7 - Where do you like to shop?

Day 8 - Describe your dream vacation.

Day 9 - List 5 things you want to do before you die.

Day 10 - What is your favorite book?

Day 11 - If you could have 3 wishes, what would they be?

Day 12 - List 5 pet peeves.

Day 13 - List 5 guilty pleasures.

Day 14 - Put your iPad on shuffle.  List the first 10 songs that play.

Day 15 - Show your favorite outfit or fashion pieces.

Day 16 - How did you and your partner decide when you were ready to start trying to conceive?

Day 17 - Discuss the most ridiculous thing you ever heard about conception. Where did you hear it? Did it work for someone else? Did you try it?

Day 18 - Besides Mothers Day, what is the hardest holiday for you as an infertile?

Day 19 - Write a letter (one that you never have to send) to a fertile in your life. Did they hurt you? Support you? Tell them how you feel, all the things you can’t bring yourself to say in person.

Day 20 - Discuss how you found your way into the ALI community, and what being part of it has meant to you – good and bad.

Day 21 - If you had gotten pregnant that first month you started trying, how would you have been a different parent? What changes have you made to your parenting style (either current or future) in the time you spent trying to conceive?

Day 22 - What was the first baby or pregnancy-related purchase you ever made? Was it before or after you started trying to conceive? Or was it after you were already pregnant?  Why did you choose that particular item to buy first? If you haven’t purchased anything yet, why not?

Day 23 - Talk about how you chose your RE.

Day 24 - If a very observant stranger were to walk into your house, what clues could lead them to believe that you have struggled with infertility?

Day 25 - Have you ever bonded with someone IRL over infertility?

Day 26 - Were you the product of infertility? Was anyone you know the product of infertility? How do you know? Or do you just suspect based on circumstances like age differences between siblings, time between marriage and conception, etc.

Day 27 - Talk about a time when you made someone in your life understand more about infertility.

Day 28 - What do you use the “nursery” for right now? If you already had a baby, what did you use it for before pregnancy?

Day 29 - If you had known that you would have trouble conceiving, what would you have done differently in life? If you already knew, did that knowledge affect your other life choices?

Day 30 -Tell us about a friendship you lost or a relationship that changed for the worse because of infertility.

Day 1 - What is the meaning behind your blog name?


Well, that started out as a snarky statement of my crappy luck, turned into a celebration of great luck. When I started this blog, nothing in my life was going as planned. I had recently found out that I didn't have a crippling disorder that I thought I had for 20 years. While I am totally aware that was GREAT luck, it threw my world into a tailspin. It took a while to figure out who I was. So I consider the 20 years of false identity as the unluckiness. 


Since then we have done IVF and I am now 21 weeks and 3 days. My luck has changed a lot. I still feel like at any moment the old crummy luck will be back, but I am hoping to at least get to hold my little man before it is back.